Like, I can see why e.g. saying the rosary would be a good anxiolytic and/or virtue increaser for humans who aren’t me. Or how having a religious community is comforting and helpful. I just don’t get how the afterlife stuff doesn’t massively offset it.
But I genuinely don’t get how anyone’s mental health is improved by a religion with a Hell in it. Everything else, sure, I see how that helps. But “eternal torture exists and you deserve it” is like… this isn’t Taking Ideas Seriously or Competing Access Needs. Any person is not going to deal well with the risk of eternal extreme misery. It is horrible by definition.
I know it’s bad to psychologise your opponents, but I can’t see how Christians believe in Hell if they’re mentally healthy. Maybe the sola fide ones are okay with other people being tortured and secure in their own salvation, but “they are okay with other people being tortured” is a horribly mean thing to say. And yet the alternative “they are lying about their religion” is also horribly mean.
What is going on here? What am I not getting? What is there that’s missing? “I am crazy” is 500x more plausible than “everyone else is crazy” but NOTHING. ABOUT. THIS. BEHAVIOUR. MAKES. ANY. SENSE. AT. ALL.Explain it to me. My inability to understand is maddening. Maybe there’s some piece I’m missing and if I see it Jesus is real and the eternal torture is somehow okay. But fuck I hope that’s not true.
In my (limited) experience, people seem to completely forget about the concept of Hell, or believe it could never happen to them/those that they love*.
But plain old forgetting/forgetting the implications seems most common.
*Esp in some Protestant systems (not sure if correct word), where it is relatively easy to ‘qualify’ for heaven. Though it varies wildly depending on who you ask.
*nods* Yeah, this is similar to David’s point.
I just don’t see how you can forget about something which is literally the worst thing possible.Lots of happy-seeming religious Christians, and also every Muslim I’ve asked, have told me that they don’t view Hell as a place of eternal torture.
The Christians pointed to something Jesus said about ‘cleansing’ and say that ‘eternal’ is hyperbole; what they believe is that bad people go to a place that is pretty unpleasant until they have learned their lesson.
The Muslims told me either that Hell is a process of cleansing those who are not yet fit for paradise, or that before you go to Hell you get undeniable proof that the Islamic God exists (he’s basically sat there in front of you being all God and such) and only go to Hell if you still refuse to become a Muslim. And that at any point after you go to Hell you can change your mind and he’ll forgive you.
so idk, data points?
Lewis’s theology of Hell is pretty interesting. Just as Heaven may be “an acquired taste”, the damned in Hell may not even wish to leave:
“The damned are, in one sense, successful, rebels to the end; the doors of hell are locked on the inside. I do not mean that the ghosts may not wish to come out of Hell, in the vague fashion wherein an envious man ‘wishes’ to be happy: but they certainly do not will even the first preliminary stages of that self-abandonment through which alone the soul can reach any good. They enjoy forever the horrible freedom they have demanded, and are therefore self-enslaved: just as the blessed, forever submitting to obedience, become through all eternity more and more free.
The Problem of Pain
In any case, our choices will echo at least until heat death whether we like it or not. Given that inevitability, should we adopt a metaphysics that rubs it in our faces or one that allows us to push the thought to the back of our minds? Are we playing for keeps or not? And if not, why not?
(Cut for length – and sorry for writing so many words in response to so few)
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